negotiations and love songs
Dec. 5th, 2010 08:59 pmEnded up with the job at crunchy granola co-op, and started training on the register today. Good people, a good environment, but lord, my feet hurt from standing, and partially due to this and partially due to some other stuff, we ended up skipping on the gym tonight. Bemo is a little hesitant about me having the second job - obviously, we could use the money, but he feels badly about me "having" to work two jobs while he has none, and also it means more time that I'm away from him. (It's purely a weekend job, eleven hours total.) We'll see. If it just doesn't work out for whatever reason, I'll leave. I'll have some training sessions, but I'm not officially on the schedule until Jan 8, because of the long vacation in VA we'll be taking soon. So there's time for it all to shake out. Besides, if we can pay down some of our credit cards, that'll be nice, and also it'll pay for my aikido.
Bemo intermittently better, but the crying jags out of nowhere still come up. Will meet his psychologist tomorrow, ask her about her style of therapy, how she thinks she can help him, the goals she's setting out, etc. Also have been advised to get him into group therapy, which I think is wise. His overwhelming anxiety has faded as he's gotten off the medication that seemed to trigger it most, but that leaves the depression front and center.
Tired. Thankful for many things. Hopeful for more.
Bemo intermittently better, but the crying jags out of nowhere still come up. Will meet his psychologist tomorrow, ask her about her style of therapy, how she thinks she can help him, the goals she's setting out, etc. Also have been advised to get him into group therapy, which I think is wise. His overwhelming anxiety has faded as he's gotten off the medication that seemed to trigger it most, but that leaves the depression front and center.
Tired. Thankful for many things. Hopeful for more.