I have reservations about some pre-nup and so on trends for people who are young and without familial commitments (mostly the sort when rich people get them saying "Even if you give everything to me and we have children you raise and then I dump you, you don't get a penny"). For people who are older with existing families, sorting the finance out is vital even when everyone gets along. Not least because it helps make sure everyone continues to get along. I hope you are able to help your mother to see wisdom :-)
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I have reservations about some pre-nup and so on trends for people who are young and without familial commitments (mostly the sort when rich people get them saying "Even if you give everything to me and we have children you raise and then I dump you, you don't get a penny"). For people who are older with existing families, sorting the finance out is vital even when everyone gets along. Not least because it helps make sure everyone continues to get along. I hope you are able to help your mother to see wisdom :-)